Tuesday, 24 November 2015

SURPRISE!

Hello everybody! I know I have been away for so long, I feel bad for not posting anything.
I'm gonna tell you the reasons why i have been away.
First of all I want to let you know that I am doing fine, and I'm gonna try to be writing as much/soon as I can.

Guys, I have moved...! I left the island life about two months ago. I am currently living in a city, I have moved to San Pedro Sula, I will be living here for few months.
I wanted to have a new challenge, and by challenge I mean that i wanted something different.
I have always loved the island style, but sometimes I'm in need of something else; just a bit of rush/adrenaline to keep me awake!

As we watch the news and they inform that San Pedro Sula is the most dangerous city in the world, I have been here and I see is not as the news say, honestly i see that this place is really nice and quiet.
Of course is a city, and as any other city if you are in the wrong street at the wrong time, and if you are hanging with the wrong people then something is going to happen to you.

Ok, now I want to tell you about me!!! I stopped working in the dive center I used to work and I'm currently working in a call center, I know the difference is big! but I feel good having a proper job with a schedule. I seriously miss the ocean and diving, but luckily the next town (10 mint. away from SPS) I found a dive center, so i can go there to scuba dive in my days off, Isn't that cool?!
I'm constantly thinking of home, but I feel good where I am right now. I don't know how long I am going to stay here, I hope I stay long enough!
So far I have been doing some friends, I'm surprised how kind they are with me, and that makes me really happy.

I'm gonna be writing soon, hope you are doing fine! xxx

Monday, 14 September 2015

PRIORIDADES...

Esta mañana cuando desperte tome unos minutos y me puse a pensar en muchas cosas que he estado haciendo mal por mucho tiempo. 

La mayor parte del tiempo nos levantamos y nos alistamos para ir al trabajo, hoy me di cuenta que me la paso pensando en muchas cosas, pero al mismo tiempo descuido lo mas importante.
Para mi la familia siempre a sido muy importante, en cambio e estado muy alejada últimamente con trabajo que me di cuenta que la tengo totalmente sin atención. 
Porque encarcelarnos/esclavizarnos trabajando tanto? siempre, lo importante ha sido el balance en todo. El problema es que vivimos en mundo tan globalizado que nos preocupamos por muchas cosas y dejamos de la lado nuestra vida propia. Ver los niños crecer hoy en día es algo muy distinto a nuestras costumbres, nuestra generación se trataba de jugar en grupo co nuestros amigos, ir de visita a sus casas, reunirnos en algún parque y jugar juntos. Hoy en día es muy distinto, veo los niños llegar a casa de la escuela y jugar solos con sus tablets, pc, etc. 
Muy a menudo me pregunto: que ha pasado? desde cuando sufrimos este gran cambio? volveremos a prestar atención a los humanos mas que a la tecnología?
Lo seguro es que la tecnología forma una gran parte de nuestras vidas, pero no entendemos que no lo es todo.
Hay muchas cosas mas a las cuales tenemos que prestar atención también... cada uno de nosotros debemos conocer nuestras prioridades. 


Ps. Siento mucho estar ausente, la conexión no a sido la mejor y e estado muy ocupada. 
Tratare de estar mas al pendiente. besos!

Sunday, 6 September 2015

LIBERTAD

Me tengo que disculpar por lo distante que e estado últimamente, la verdad es que e estado bien ocupada y la conexión a internet a estado fatal.

Prometo escribir buen material mañana (siempre y cuando tenga buena conexión a internet) siento que tengo tanto para escribir.

Por lo de estar escribiendo en español, sentí la necesidad de escribir en español hoy! 

Wednesday, 26 August 2015

INDEPENDENCE

I'm sorry I've been away, I can not believe how fast time flies.



Recently my younger brother graduated from high school, as older sister makes me feel proud. Congratulations brother!😊


The fact of this event made me think of something that although we are brothers we are so different, the fact of growing with our parents often we try to imitate everything they do. Fortunately I was lucky to grow up with parents who always let us be who we are, we had the freedom to express and choose what we like not leaving behind what is the best for us.


When I was in high school I remember cases where the parents of my classmates wouldn't let them be themselves. I always thought that many parents are wrong to try to overprotect their children. They should know that what they have to do is to help and guide us to be independent from the time we are born, to teach us how to defend ourselves in adversity.


I also thought that one of the biggest mistakes of humans is to be dependent in any way, especially when it comes to being happy based on someone else, I can't understand why is difficult to understand that to be happy we must accept and love ourselves first.
Being independent we know ourselves, we realise what our limits are and beyond them when we learn to overcome our fears and are not afraid to speak out when someone wants to silence us. this is not being a rebel is only fighting for our rights, our rights that as individuals must know how to value. 

I think is very important to spend time alone and not be defined by another person
       
Creative people are curious, flexible, persistent and independent with a tremendous spirit of adventure and a love of play 



Tuesday, 4 August 2015

HAPPINESS IS...


Who said we have to follow instructions to be happy in life?
The truth is that we all live very differently and that's fine. Everyone has happy and sad moments, we get big surprises throughout our existence, we know the bad and the good, we fall in love, we get heartbroken, and return to the same wheel over and over again. I think we must remember that everything we do should be seeking our own happiness, of course without harming others, not being selfish but always I have thought that if we do not seek our own well-being nobody will do for us. As humans we need to be independent and not depend on someone else's happiness.

I think we should have a few things in mind to achieve to be happy, for example:

1. Stop comparing yourself to others, we are humans which means we are unique! Imagine how boring the world would be if everyone were/looked alike.

2.  Don't mind what others say about you, what others think is their problem, you know who you are, ignore stupid rumours.

3. Do not give explanations, you are the boss of your life, you are the one in charge of yourself.

4. Abandon the idea of ​​"A PERFECT LIFE", life is not perfect, it has its ups and downs.

5. Eliminate the excuses, these are only thoughts that make you feel better for not doing something you needed or wanted to do.

6. Let negativity go, stop thinking that world is against you.

7. Do not judge others, don't judge unless you want to be judged. No one has a perfect life to judge others.

 8. Do not be envious, there's no need to you to have everything you want, but need to appreciate what you have.

9. Open your mind, listen to others, you are not always right, learn to accept when you're wrong, it's not easy but it makes you feel grow.

10. Your happiness not depend on others, be the owner of your happiness, will help you become self-sufficient, remember that at the end of the day the only person you can count to one hundred percent is you.

11. Accept yourself, think about what a great person you are, and you will radiate safety and positiveness.

12. Do not live in the past, life is the present, enjoy it.

13. Do not try to always have the control, relax and let things happen at their own pace.

14. Travel, stop wasting your time watching tv, go and discover the big beautiful world. You will discover how brave you are.

15.Keep clear expectations,  if they are clear and realistic you never will be disappointed.




Remember that you have only one life and you have to make every minute of it.

Sunday, 26 July 2015

LOVE AND RESPECT






I am always happy to be near the sea, it makes me forget the troubles, sorrows, and other negativities.

Speaking of negativity, often happens that we take too much work to accept ourselves, we spend most of the time watching the virtues of others but take very little time to accept ourselves.

Very often I hear people saying: "you are what you reflex". In fact, I accept it, now I understand why. If you don't like yourself everything is reflected in your personality, charisma, aura, even in your physical appearance. It is as if magnetically we attract others when we have confidence in ourselves, we must keep in mind every day that we are the best and that being different to others makes us unique and special.









Remember to smile, it's free! 😃



Monday, 20 July 2015

CONFIDENCE



I'm constantly asking "Who are we?"
I look at myself in the mirror and see a person who is full of questions, who always wants to know, who is always ready for the next step.
My question is, we are always ready for changes? I've learned that we are not really prepared because we are mostly afraid of changes. But that fear makes our mind awakens a curiosity that is what gives us the push to get out of our comfort zone.

Now I know that all we need is a little "push" of trust, which is always useful in our daily lives.
When we wake up every morning we are curious to see what is out of our window, I think that our life should be the same way. We must think BIG, we are our own heroes, we have to go out and make our dreams come true! We must remember that we are not perfect, and it's totally OK to make mistakes. But we must always remember that we can do everything that we can imagine!




Don't be afraid to be who you are!